Everyone seems to be writing obituaries to David Bowie who, sadly, died yesterday, so I will try not to repeat anything from those. I just want to give thanks for the profound influence he had on my life. He gave me belief in myself.
I first heard of him around 1965 when David Bowie and the Buzz performed in Southampton. Everyone thought that this androgynous bloke who dressed a bit different was enigmatic. He had one of those distinctive voices too whereby you could still hear his London accent even though he was singing a range of things. In 1969 Bowie wrote Space Oddity in time for the first man on the moon – it had got on Top of the Pops by 1970 and at this time he was wearing ‘really weird clothes’.
I had been brought up in second-hand clothes and had always felt an outsider because of it, so I created my own style. Bowie not only made me feel okay, he made me feel cool. Suddenly I was an ‘it girl’. In the early 70s he was due to back Lou Reed on his Transformer tour at Southampton Guildhall. Everyone rushed for tickets – mainly to see David Bowie, but I couldn’t get hold of one. I waited outside the Civic Centre and just begged others to sell me their ticket. As one woman had only really wanted to see Lou Reed, she agreed to come out for five minutes and lend me her ticket for one song if I bought her a pack of cigarettes, around 5/- or there-abouts (25p in the new decimal currency).
Bowie was dressed so theatrically – I vowed then to always do the same. The song I listened to? Life on Mars – which I adopted as if it had been written for me.
life on Mars
It’s a God awful small affair
To the girl with the mousey hair,
But her mummy is yelling, “No!”
And her daddy has told her to go,
But her friend is no where to be seen.
Now she walks through her sunken dream
To the seats with the clearest view
And she’s hooked to the silver screen,
But the film is saddenin’ bore
For she’s lived it ten times or more.
She could spit in the eyes of fools
As they ask her to focus on
Sailors
Fighting in the dance hall.
Oh man!
Look at those cavemen go.
It’s the freakiest show.
Take a look at the lawman
Beating up the wrong guy.
Oh man!
Wonder if he’ll ever know
He’s in the best-selling show.
Is there Life On Mars?
Later in the early 80s a band consisting of four blokes from Winchester, named 4 People I Have Known, asked me to write them a song. Heavily influenced by Life on Mars, I wrote a song along the lines of:
thanks for sharing this story
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Just had to Dahling!
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It’s amazing to think how many huge stars have played at our humble little guildhall. Even bob Dylan was there last year
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Such a lovely personal story, and a fabulous experience to remember. How nice that you had your song played on the radio!
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Just the once though I think
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I always like you r personal stories the best. Loved Bowie for his style.
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A real artist
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You’re not old enough SoL, to remember David Bowie. (God rest his precious soul) 😀
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Of course I am. It was him, Marc Bolin (RIP) and Alice Cooper that I raved to.
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Fabulous story, and great to have your song on the John Peel show. Bowie’s influence is all around us, for ever.
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And not long after your photo of the Aladdin Sane/Queen street art to prove it
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Thanks for sharing your personal memories and I never knew you’d been played on the John Peel! I loved what Jarvis Cocker said in his tribute – Bowie made it ‘alright to be a bit different and try things out and dye your hair and wear strange clothes’
http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p03f5q67
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It was only ever on the radio once or twice, but I put that mainly down to the guys who wrote the music and some clever graphics on the cassette tape. I have you to thank Erica, for first introducing me to Jarvis Cocker – Pulp Fictions’ “Common People” was the iconic BritPop song of the 90s. I think Jarvis speaks correctly for people like us in his comment. Thanks for the link. Have you experienced “Darkstar” on YouTube yet? The choreography looks a bit like Michael Clark’s – the horrible shaking reminds me of my reaction to chemo – my family found this very frightening. Then they have this double dipping with hands like he had in his “Fashion” video. Then a spaceman suit with a Damien Hirst skull. It is quite a creative nod to his life, but some scenes where people’s shadows show on a starry backdrop make me think that some scenes were rushed. I’d love to know your expert opinion?
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There’s is a Tumblr account called The Villa of Ormen that was set up in November last year. The images have many similarities to both the Black Star & Lazarus videos. As the last posting to the account was on 10th December and this was well before the release of the Lazarus video, it seems likely that the account holder was Bowie. The images are quite creepy – you have been warned!
http://thevillaoformen.tumblr.com/
It wouldn’t surprise me if he has left more on-line discoveries for us to find
I think the jewelled skull is most likely drawn from these ones of Catholic saints: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/culturepicturegalleries/10257525/Bejewelled-and-decorated-skeletons.html?frame=2649699
I feel very sad at his passing, but blown away by how he has incorporated his death into his final artistic act.
RIP David Bowie
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Thanks for the links. As I was looking at them I found this from 26 days ago: http://sheekyforums.com/thread/61154273/music/in-the-villa-of-ormen.html
and the idea behind Blackstar was an Elvis track: http://dangerousminds.net/comments/bowie_elvis_warhol_black_star_connection_popism_eats_itself
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Can’t believe you wrote a song that John Peel played on the radio! Great going 🙂 and it is very Bowie, of course
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Thanks hajb. Can hardly believe it myself. I loved your tribute to Bowie too. That sky is terrific.
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Thank you very much! Tried writing any other songs since then?
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Only for pantomimes
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I’m sure David Bowie would have loved it 🙂
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Charmer!
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Bowie heavily influence my youth too and I was saddened to hear he’d died. I was too young in 65 (just 5) to even know he had come to Southampton and, sadly, never got to see him live. Like you though, I was a girl brought up in second hand clothes who was an outsider because I didn’t have the latest fashions. Bowie allowed me to be what I wanted and I’m still an oddball in terms of what I wear to this day. The first Bowie single I bought, with money from my paper round, was Life on Mars and I swore Sorrow was written about me because I had long blonde hair and blue eyes. The world just got a little less interesting!
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Thanks for sharing your lovely memories – seems we have yet more in common.
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I really enjoyed your very personal account of your relationship to David Bowie. He was really a work of art.
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Thanks! Yes – all the artists I like best use themselves – from Frida Khalo to Marina Aronavich
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