Anyone who comes to visit any country in Europe must notice at first hand the increase in the number of its own citizens sleeping rough on the streets. Depression like this – we haven’t seen since the 1930s. Let me tell you about my City…
When I was a child, the only homeless people one would see on the streets in my town were alcoholics. These were normally Merchant Seamen, who had spent their whole 6-months pay on booze and women in one go. Every December 25th, my father, usually a bit of Scrooge all year, would invite someone off the streets in to join us for Christmas Dinner. My brother and I would be quite put out about this and thought it diverted attention away from us. Not least of all because the invited guest would hit the free booze as soon as possible. They would swear and tell tales of sexual exploits that were not suitable for children’s ears. My mother would hide herself away in the kitchen – we kids would hide under the table. Once there was a Canadian novelist, who made money from selling his books all about the sea. He told some very interesting stories – but he still drank heavily.
Today however, many of the homeless are just normal people, who have hit bad times. Many cannot afford to drink or smoke. I have talked to a variety of homeless people in and around Southampton. I do not offer any analysis, but here is my general observations: The youngest I spoke to was 14 years-of-age, the oldest was 82. Other vulnerable people included those with mental illnesses. I have met five couples and two families. Most are single. All of them were white. About half were British (from every country except for Wales) and the other half were from a variety of Eastern European countries. About one-quarter were ex-servicemen. Two years ago, I noticed many with dogs, now however, I notice very few with dogs.
Before I go out, I try to make up bags of sandwiches using up any leftover ingredients that we would not get through ourselves. I include fruit and unwanted chocolates. If they are sleeping in nearby streets to where I live – I take cups of tea, coffee, soup or hot-chocolate. I have also recently discovered an organisation called Curb that re-distributes food waste via pop-up shops and cafes.
My own husband has debts to pay to the Department of Work and Pensions. Last Christmas he was informed that his Pension had been over-payed for the last eight years and sent a bill for £12,000 ! We are paying this back in instalments somehow. This Government is clawing back as much money as possible from the “welfare” budget (we had no idea that pension was welfare).
We are certainly not alone, we were told that thousands were in the same situation. The “trickle down theory’ is obviously not working here. When billionaires walk past the homeless to buy a new yacht at the marina, it is obvious to me that the rich are getting rich and the poor are getting poorer. It doesn’t seem too long ago that we thought of ourselves as comfortably off.
However, I am truly thankful that I am alive, with a roof over my head, I am not at war, I eat well and have a wonderful happy family.
So though I cannot hand out money, left-overs cost me next-to-nothing – and after all – “There but for the Grace of God go I”.
So how is it where you are?
My husband remarked recently, that he saw, for the first time since we came to live in this small, peaceful town, a man rummaging in the public bins. He was shocked and found It very significant of a third world poverty that will wave over our occidental societies soon, you may say already. He is a kind man who, I like to say, is a feeder of people and animals. If he sees a poor fellow in the street, he goes straight to the takeaway for a hot sandwich to give; Thanks to those people who work for it.
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Thanks for your input from France Vronlacroix. Your husband sounds lovely
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Reblogged this on Heba vs Reason.
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Honoured that you have reblogged one of my articles – really like your site – very up-to-date.
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Very good that you posted this.
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A tender piece, Sol. We are off the beaten track, but London is as you describe
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Yes – I think London has more obvious divisions of Wealth.
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A wonderfully compassionate and pragmatic piece. In the 1980’s I lived in Hollywood, California where I encountered many homeless on a daily basis. My observations were near to identical as yours. Sadly, instead of seeing a change for the better, things appear worse. The rich do seem to be getting richer and the number of poor is growing. The good news is that there are a growing number of grassroot organizations like Curb that are distributing food that would otherwise be wasted into the hands of those who need it. Great post.
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Thanks so much for your comments Intricate Knot. I went to California in 1983 and remember how it was mainly Hispanics that were homeless, with large supermarket trolleys walking up and down Venice Beach. They seemed to have no end of waste food to help themselves to. But unfortunately – no shelter or privacy.
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Venice Beach is entire conversation in itself. And you’re right of course, no shelter. No privacy. Very sad.
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Coincidentally the BBC news have just publish an article on homeless in Los Angeles – thought you might like to view it: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-34384755
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Such a poignant story, with such touching photos.
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I just had a look at your blog and have realised that you do everything I would like my blog to do only better
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All of these simply amazing photos that I have been fortunate enough to see, are, silent words captured on ‘film’, yet they speak with individual voices uniquely theirs.
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Thanks – I thought the same about the photos you use – go so well with your words.
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You’re very welcome! And, thank you!
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This post is really eye-opening, and heartbreaking as well. I admire you for what you do, and hopefully this post will inspire many people as it does to me 🙂
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Homelessness has probably got a lot worse since you were here at Uni
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Felt it was so very important to share these thoughts. The homeless will always be among us. The main question is are we walking by and ignoring them or lending a helping hand as needed? Definitely something to think about. Thanks for sharing not only your touching words but amazing photos.
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I feel just as moved re-reading this post. You are super special and i so agree that there but for the grace of God …
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